Quite the popular topic I must say. EVeryone wants to recapture that magic, those smiles, those moments, its natural to want something back that once made you so comfortable. Also any time you dont have something or perceive that you cant have it, your naturally going to want it more. So how do you get your ex back? Is there an exact science. Six magic words and a rub of a genie bottle that will make it happen?? Hardly. Here is a question to ponder:
How would you eat a giant chocolate elephant (or any other sweet of your choice)?? Sounds silly but the answer is simple : one bite at a time. This is the same way to get your ex back. Bit by bit. Little by little. This is how you have to think about it to achieve your goal. If you just want the lust and heat that goes with any new encounter or person go for it, you can find that anywhere. But if you want that special thing that makes you explode with joy one time and hurt others, you gotta work at. Bit by bit??? Thats pretty weak info your saying to yourself. Well here you are. I'll give you some food for thought.
-What made you two smile, and what made you two laugh? Those things are KEY. Listen closely here ladies and gentlemen, KEY to your relationship. If you can make somebody laugh then you can make them do anything.
-Why did the relationship end? Avoid this subject to begin with. You need to establish the fact that your going to be there regardless, not just to be with them, yet.
-Give them a reason to help you. It can be something minute. An outfit or dressing for your ex-girlfriend or building something or installing electronics for an ex-boyfriend (just examples). Everyone wants to feel needed, that will help re-establish and strengthen an already existing bond between you both.
-Lastly, LAUGH. Be happy, enjoy yourself. I cant explain to you how important this is. Even if you have to put it on a little, anyone who seems to be happy and enjoying themselves is automatically more attractive no matter the situation.
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